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Is a “good divorce” possible?

On Behalf of | Nov 16, 2023 | Divorce |

Divorce generally has a negative reputation for tearing families apart. Stories of downright financial and psychological destruction are all too common.

While it is challenging to see anything positive come out of such a painful process, relationship resources argue that a “good divorce” is possible. It can happen if both parties mutually agree that ending their marriage can give birth to a favorable future.

Identifying the qualities of a good divorce

No two Connecticut divorces are alike, which means there is no precise formula as to what can make for a good divorce. Knowing there is a range of circumstances that can occur, the following characteristics present the good things divorcing couples typically experience:

  • Clear closure: Closing an emotionally and economically difficult chapter comes with the relief of being free from constant worries or struggles. They may now make independent decisions based on their beliefs and not out of force or fear.
  • Promising post-divorce life: Endings signal beginnings. A hopeful chapter awaits, potentially filled with new social networks and career opportunities.
  • Stronger sense of self: As family dynamics shift, so does a person’s perception of themselves. Even if they are no longer a spouse to anyone, they may develop a tougher mindset to care for their and their child’s well-being.

When romance or intimacy fades, divorcing couples may realize they can adapt to their newfound roles as civil co-parents and wish each other well. However, it may not be as easy as it sounds. But with the right support system, including their families, friends, and health and legal advocates, they can turn their divorce around.

Staying in an unhappy marriage could be worse

Even if their marriage did not have a happy ending, individuals could see the divorce as a vehicle to drive the change they want for their lives. Doing so can show their child how a relationship can still thrive despite both parties living separate lives. After all, staying in an unhealthy marital bond saturated with tensions and disputes can only do more harm than good.